It’s easy to look at other’s lives and assume that doing (fill
in the blank) *must* be right because (fill in the blank) is working out
fantastically for them. There are truckloads of great ideas and moms/parents
are challenged to do all of them because it’s what’s *best* for their kiddies.
My skepticism isn’t founded in the fact that I think anyone
and everyone are wrong—however I’m becoming cautious about what advice I’ll
praise and what I won’t. Some things work out great for some families and are a
disaster for others. Some tactics are perfectly fit for your child, but maybe
they won’t work as well for someone else.
I’ve seen so many ideas that I can’t even remember them all
(don’t worry, I’ve pinned them for later). But frankly, these are only good
ideas. I will take them for what they are and apply them where they fit. However,
I haven’t even met my little ones yet. I don’t know their hearts and I don’t
know what they’ll need. I will come to understand that quickly, yet slowly when
I meet them.
Those of you who do already know your little sweethearts
already know what they need. You know what works for your family and what doesn’t.
Sometimes a great idea is only an idea that seems to have great affects but in
reality might squelch a better learning opportunity for you and your child.
So yes, seek out information, seek out ideas. Learn all you
can to be the best you can. But don’t seek so many ideas that you break your
own heart and confidence as a mother. You know what your family needs better
than anyone else. Pray for guidance and inspiration. Try things out and bag
them if they aren’t working for you.
Move forward and keep learning from the little ones that you
are trying to teach. I can guarantee that you will be a better mommy by paying
attention to them more than reading up on the latest and greatest ideas.
